Hello friends! How are you? I hope that you’re having an awesome life. I want to share something interesting and meaningful with you. But before that, let me ask some personal questions.Have you experienced problems in your relationship?
Have you encountered conflicts and misunderstanding in your marriage?
Are you about to give up on your partner?
Have you been accused of your friend or partner that you don’t love him/her?
Are you confused sometimes that no matter what you do to express your love to someone, it’s still not sufficient, not recognized, and not appreciated?
These questions will lead us to a great discussion on love and relationship. One of the reasons that there are broken relationships and marriages is that people have difficulty expressing their love to their partner, and their partner doesn’t feel, recognize and appreciate their love. Loving someone entails knowing the love language of our beloved. No matter how much one tries his best to love another person, this love will not be felt and recognized by the other if it is not expressed in his/her love language. Each person has his/her own love language. And we need to love the other not in the way we want to love him/her, but in the way he/she wants to be loved. This is what love language is all about. It is the form of love that one can easily understand and feel.
There are 5 love languages. A person may have one or more love languages, but one is dominant. Identify which your love language is. How do you want to be loved?
1. Touch
2. Words
3. Service
4. Gifts
5. Time
If you really love your friend or partner, you will try to know his/her love language, and love him/her in the way he/she wants to be loved. We need to consider his/her needs, not ours. In this way, no love will go to waste, misunderstandings and conflicts will be resolved, relationship will be deepened and strengthened, and doubts and fears will be lessened. My friend, Speak Your Partner’s Love Language! Moreover, one way to know your own love language is checking on how you express your love to others. The way we love others is also the way we want to be loved.
Have you encountered conflicts and misunderstanding in your marriage?
Are you about to give up on your partner?
Have you been accused of your friend or partner that you don’t love him/her?
Are you confused sometimes that no matter what you do to express your love to someone, it’s still not sufficient, not recognized, and not appreciated?
These questions will lead us to a great discussion on love and relationship. One of the reasons that there are broken relationships and marriages is that people have difficulty expressing their love to their partner, and their partner doesn’t feel, recognize and appreciate their love. Loving someone entails knowing the love language of our beloved. No matter how much one tries his best to love another person, this love will not be felt and recognized by the other if it is not expressed in his/her love language. Each person has his/her own love language. And we need to love the other not in the way we want to love him/her, but in the way he/she wants to be loved. This is what love language is all about. It is the form of love that one can easily understand and feel.
There are 5 love languages. A person may have one or more love languages, but one is dominant. Identify which your love language is. How do you want to be loved?
1. Touch
2. Words
3. Service
4. Gifts
5. Time
If you really love your friend or partner, you will try to know his/her love language, and love him/her in the way he/she wants to be loved. We need to consider his/her needs, not ours. In this way, no love will go to waste, misunderstandings and conflicts will be resolved, relationship will be deepened and strengthened, and doubts and fears will be lessened. My friend, Speak Your Partner’s Love Language! Moreover, one way to know your own love language is checking on how you express your love to others. The way we love others is also the way we want to be loved.
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This is exactly what I needed. How do u find out your partners love language? Ask them? What if they don't know?
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